I totally understand wanting to explore and add some excitement to your personal life—it’s something my partner and I have experimented with too. When we first started, we looked for things that felt fun but not intimidating, and it really helped us communicate more openly about what we like. One thing I’ve found useful is checking out communities and platforms where people share honest, anonymous experiences. For example, I recently discovered
https://lovescape.com/spicy-ai-chat-anonymous and it’s a great place to get ideas, ask questions, and hear about what others have tried without any pressure or judgment.